Adventure with Honeybees

Adventure with Honeybees

On my last encounter with a beehive, I tripped, tumbled, and screamed my way down a grassy hill in a mad attempt to outrun an angry swarm of yellow jacket bees. By the time I landed in my mother’s arms, I had suffered fifteen bee stings in my butt! I was ten and impregnated with a new fear in an instant. As I sat in a bathtub of tomato juice to calm the stings, I sobbed and swore I’d never EVER get near another one of those angry, carnivorous bees again.

Etched into my mind for several decades to follow was this innocent misunderstanding that those bees represented all bees, and therefore all bees were angry and armed to sting if I so much as breathed in their direction.

Then one day, I heard whispers that the honeybees were disappearing mysteriously. I’m embarrassed to admit that I hadn’t made the HUGE distinction between yellow jackets and honeybees until that moment, long after entering adulthood.

I grew a healthy respect and admiration for honeybees at that point, as well as a love for their most delicious by-product, honey. I began devouring honey at glutinous rates. I poured that delightful treat on everything from coffee to toast.

Then, about a year ago, that admiration turned into a healthy obsession to understand this magnificent creature even more. I was sitting in my living room, flipping through some TedTalk videos, when I came across one presented by Dr. Marla Spivak, Why Bees are Disappearing

When the video ended, I immediately knew I wanted to learn much more about honeybees and what I could do as an individual to help save them. I also knew that one day I would write a novel featuring these magnificent beings. Dr. Spivak offered several key ways a person could immediately help save bees. She suggested planting wild flowers and avoiding the use of pesticides and insecticides. I knew I had a lot to learn, and thus one day I’d have a lot to share.

I contacted Dr. Spivak and she referred me to an insightful book, Lessons From the Hive written by a fellow Entomology expert, Mark L. Winston. I absorbed every ounce of information he offered. Then, I furthered my research by contacting a local organic beekeeper at Sweet Artisans Apiary in MD. I sat down with Steve and Kathy Sweet (yes, their last name is so cool and fitting!) and they educated me on everything and anything honeybees. When they spoke, they did so with a love kindred to that of a parent talking about their child. They consider their bees family. The admiration and respect they have for them caused my eyes to tear as I listened to them for four hours on that first encounter.

They later invited me back to their apiary to help them place their pollen collector trays in their hives. Talk about a rush! With the silly, ignorant fears of the past long gone, I suited up in their garage and then entered the apiary – a newfound paradise to my senses. The bees buzzed, danced, and went about their business of maintaining the hive as I stood a curious onlooker to their fascinating lives. Did you know that if you lean in close enough to the honeycomb hive, you can feel the wind from their wings?

I started writing The Dance immediately following this visit. Here’s a quick summary: The Dance is a dramatic story that deals with friendship, mentorship, and love. A beekeeper and an overwhelmed woman who is thrown into the thrusts of being a single parent to her teenaged daughter after her spouse dies, learn to dance around life’s ups and downs as they come face-to-face with the many parallels between them and the honeybees they begin to nurture together.

Here’s a little peek into my apiary visit adventure.

How to Transfer Notes From Kindle

How to Transfer Notes From Kindle

Every once in a while something that should probably come intuitively to me doesn’t. And this frustrates the heck out of me! I live and breathe my Kindle as a writer and a reader.

I take my Kindle everywhere I go. It accompanies me to work, to appointments, to the park, to cafes, virtually everywhere. So, I assumed I knew my Kindle inside and out. Well, no I did not.

My Ah-Ha Moment with Kindle

Recently, I’ve been researching for my next novel The Dance, using my wonderful Kindle as a tool. I’ve read several insightful books on honeybees, and I highlighted lots of passages that provided key concepts and facts that I’d later want to refer back to for accuracy and fact-checking. As I highlighted, I kept thinking, this is awesome. Technology is wonderful. So long physical highlighter pen. Hello virtual pen.

Yeah, well, I assumed my Kindle came equipped with some kind of export feature for my notes and highlights. I’d never really thought about it having such a feature before because I never needed it as I did now. So, you can imagine my dismay when I couldn’t find such a feature! I now imagined laborious note-taking sessions where I’d have to revisit my highlights via my kindle device and manually type them into a WORD document for later ease of fact-checking while writing my novel.

Let the Kindle Research Begin.

So, I conducted some online searches and found several stumped people having the same question of how to easily extract highlights and notes from a Kindle? I was glad to see I wasn’t alone in my lack of Kindle know-how.

I decided to stop the search and just go straight to the source and ask. So, I landed on kindle.amazon.com and wouldn’t you know, the answer sat right at the top of the page. Here’s all you need to do to copy and paste your highlights and notes from Kindle books to a WORD document.

Here’s how:

  1. From kindle.amazon.com, login to your Amazon account.
  2. Go to Your Highlights.
  3. Simply copy and paste the ones you want into a WORD document.

Yeah, simple as that!

A Trip Down Memory Lane

After I completed my task, I went through all the books I’ve read and their associated highlights. I rediscovered some poignant moments coined by many inspiring authors. I never realized how much I highlight when reading! I just loved rereading them and rediscovering what inspired me the first time I read those books. What a wonderful trip down memory lane.

Kindle also has another great feature when you log onto this webpage. They call it the Daily Review. It’s a tool to help you review and remember the most significant ideas from your books. It shows you flashcards with either your highlights and notes or the Popular Highlights from others for a particular book.

Now I’m curious… in your review of your highlights, do you have a favorite you’d like to share here? I’d love to discover new books and insightful moments!

 

Writer’s Insights Book

Writer’s Insights Book

A little personal note to all who know what I’ve gone through the past few months: I had a hard time pressing the publish button. This was the last book that my sweet boy, Sunshine, had been by my side with as I wrote and refined it. A part of me was honestly afraid that by releasing it I would feel like the end of an era occurred… but it doesn’t. In a spirited sense, I felt him giving me the thumbs up and nudge I needed. He’ll always be a part of this book, and I’ll always have that comfort.

The Story Behind Writer’s Insights

This book is one I decided to write after receiving many emails, messages, and posts with questions about the writing process and marketing from aspiring and seasoned authors. Many of these questions stemmed from people who watched my Writer’s Insights Video Series and were ready for even more information. I interviewed several experts in the fields of life coaching, website and social media, blogging, and editorial to find answers to some of the leading questions people posed. 

Who Should Read Writer’s Insights?

This book is for anyone who dreams of writing a novel, anyone who is confused on how to get started with writing it, or anyone who has already started writing a novel and needs direction on things like flow, pace, characterization, editing, and marketing.

Writer’s Insights is chocked full of tips and advice. The book guides readers through a simple process to help organize thoughts and navigate the path from the first sentence of a novel to the very last. Here’s just a little of what readers will learn: essentials to productive writing, ways to keep creativity flowing, creating the perfect book title, developing characters, hooking a reader from the first page, planning the plot, charting scenes, creating conflict, writing snappy dialogue, writing a synopsis, editing tips, publishing options, branding, and building a strong readership. I hope to help readers  clear through the clutter by offering an easy-to-understand method of staying focused and organized as they move toward their dreams of becoming a novelist.

Pick up your copy here.

How to Deal with Struggles

How to Deal with Struggles

Most of us have come face-to-face with many struggles. Life has ups and downs. For some, these ups and downs are extreme, catapulting a person from the heights of euphoria to the depths of despair in a matter of the time it takes to draw a breath. Life tests us. Heartache is inevitable. As human beings, we can’t escape struggle. To fight it is futile. But, to embrace it is empowering.

Accept Struggles as a Pathway to Peace

We serve ourselves better when we stroll on the path of learning and accepting struggles as a way to peace. Space opens up for us to widen our stride, breathe deeper, capture a wide-angle view of what’s really happening alongside of us. Not shackled to the underbrush of hatred, anger, or other deflating emotions brought on by life’s blows, we’re free to absorb the lessons it is trying to teach us.

Absorb the lessons in struggles

What we resist persists, right? Let’s face it, we’re all going to face turmoil. So, how can be protect ourselves from its potential damage? How can we stand strong against its relentless push? How can we best survive these disappointments and heartaches?

If we look at struggles as an earthquake, we’ll see that we can’t avoid the quake, the destruction of what was, and the dust as it begins to settle on top and form new layers. We can’t. This is life. If we fight struggles, we stir up more of the suffocating dust and enshroud ourselves deeper into its destructive new landscape. But, if we can learn to accept the natural power of life by remaining peaceful and patient to turmoil’s fury, we can retain our wit and ability to survive.

Just as in an earthquake, struggles will continue to transform the landscape. They will shake us, re-shake us, and redefine the temporary. And just as with life, an earthquake may change the shape of what we fight to maintain, but it cannot break the sum of all that made it. For the dirt, rock and grass is, in fact, still the same dirt, rock and grass – just in renewed form.

Here’s the empowering thought:

Once the dust settles, we’re free to climb to our feet with renewed energy and clarity to define our new landscape in a way that suits our here and now. Weathered by struggles, we’re made stronger by our experiences with them.

I’ve come to a personal realization to not fight when life strikes an inevitable blow. Perhaps if we learn to embrace the fact that life may shake and knock us down temporarily, then we’ll grow to understand the other important fact that once the dust settles we will come out stronger, wiser, and mightier than before.

Do you have a different analogy you can share on how you view struggles? Let’s empower each other.

In Loving Memory of Sunshine

In Loving Memory of Sunshine

“Sunshine” a.k.a. General Chesty: February 16, 2006 – April 10, 2015

On February 16, 2006, you shined your light on this world for the first time. From the initial moment we met, when you were just 2 weeks old, my life blossomed beyond any level I had ever known.

Sunshine, you made me a better person. You taught me how to love abundantly, eat with gusto, embrace the best in people, smell the sweetness of the early day, rest without a care in the world, pick up my pace when duty called, and slow down long enough to give thanks to the gifts of friendship, family, and love.

You lit up a room with your gentle and giant spirit, and you continue to spread love through every nook and cranny of my being.

Throughout the course of your beautiful life, you saved me countless times from losing sight of the present moment. Like right now as I write this I am once again reminded, with the thought of your caring nudge, to take pause and reflect on the pristine beauty of the now.

I look around me and you’re everywhere. I feel your warmth and love kissing the air and filling it with hope and lightness. You comfort me, even from the other side of that Rainbow Bridge, because you’re that powerful and loving.

I miss you so much. I miss your smell, soft fur, wet nose, soulful eyes, and silly poses. I miss your hugs, snores, and limitless appetite for everything yummy and fun this world has to offer. I miss you pawing at me when I’m working too hard. I miss you waking me up in the middle of the night to take you outside so you can explore where bunnies and squirrels play in the backyard. I miss that look you used to give me when you wanted me to stop everything and sit with you on the couch under all of your one hundred and ten pounds of strength. I will cherish the memories of those cuddles forever.

I miss life on your time, Sunshine.

I miss you calling the shots.

I’ll always miss everything about you.

You’ve left permanent paw prints on my heart, and I will hold them dearly and honor them with grateful pleasure knowing I am deeply blessed for having the love and companionship of one of the greatest, selfless souls imaginable.

The lives of those you touched will always shine brightly. You’ve touched so many. Wherever we ventured, people stopped in their tracks to take in your sweet eyes and adorable expression. You lifted people’s spirits with such ease. Oh how I loved that ability of yours. I take great comfort in knowing without a doubt that your memory will live on in so many hearts.

It’s been a privilege and an honor sharing life with you.

You are my Sunshine, my one and only Sunshine.

Until we meet again my sweet boy…

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